Does your CO keep things even between BM and DH? Or is it one sided?
I used to be so frustrated that my life was virtually an open book. BM got to know where we lived, worked, income, work hours, ect.
Yet, she did not have to supply us any information.
And it's all because of SS. Since he comes over here, she is privvy to information, so that makes it ok and acceptable. But her life is closed off. She gets to keep her privacy.
Of course, I don't want to know anything about her or her life but it seems a little unfair that an NCP has to have little to no privacy when it comes to his ex.