SD has been coming over sick for the last month and a half, every other weekend in that time period. Because of SS being in pre school we were doind an every other weekend schedule. 2 weeks ago, they came on a fri, SD coughing, sneezing etc, will never cover her nose or mouth. When your eating, she always leans forward over every one elses plates??? IDK why, anyway that sunday I woke up with sore throat and it went from there, coughing sneezing ... Thankfully DD didnt catch it. OK by that weekend ( that we didnt have them) I was feeling alittle better. Back track,, AS SOON AS I GOT THEM IN THE CAR that prior weekend and i seen SD was runny nose and she started coughing, I called BM who always immediatly leaves as soon as she gets them out her car. I asked her why she didnt take SD to DR because she was sick the previous week also. SHe said " oh they wont do nothing till its bad enough to need a nebulizer" WTF, ok .. back to story, I started feeling beeter the falling weekend ( they didnt come over) Then this last fri I picked them up, First thing i asked, "DID SD GO TO DR?" She said no she s better, I got kids in car got about 1 mile down the road, low and behold SD started coughing up a storm, i turn around she got all kinds of stuff coming out her nose. So I ask 5 yr old SS. Has your sister been sick this whole time ? He says yes mama didnt take her to the dr. OMFG.. I get home, this is this past fri... I try to call MY PED ( now DH has health ins on BOTH kids and BM HAS INSURANCE CARD!!!!) My Ped cant get her in over the weekend. I gave her cough med, put vicks on, put humidifier (cool) in the girls room. NOw I may add SD sleeps in my DDs room when she's here. Ok SO Sunday comes I take them to their BM. I said " Look you NEED to take SD to DR BEFORE she comes back to my house" Her response I"LL TRY. F^&$#%% B%$%@ ugh... Anyway yesterday I start with a runny nose AGAIN, sneezing... EXCEPT this time my 18 month old DD didnt escape it, her nose is running and she has a fever. UGH All weekend I spent spraying everything with lysol whild SD was here. Telling her and this is no lie every 5 MINS COVER YOUR MOUTH, when she was playng with DD she'd be coughing in her face. etc. IDK what the heck to do anymore. Half tempted to call SCP for medical neglect but how do I prove it. BM too busy with her new BF to care about bathing , cleaning, hygiene or medical care of these kids!!!!
Mommy to 4 here and 2 in heaven