i texted youngest skid today to ask if her and her sisters wanted to come over tonight and help tomorrow getting everything ready for father's day. they usually come on fridays and stay until sunday night, but its the summer and things are pretty lax. well the oldest one is still refusing to come over (see earlier post about why she is mad at me) and the middle one doesn't want to come over either now :( the youngest said she wanted to come but then immediately asked if i would bring over the oldest's xbox. i told her she would have to ask her dad because in my opinion, just because he bought it for her doesnt mean she needs to have it right now when she is refusing to spend time with him especially on father's day.
i just feel like they don't like me and am getting really down about it. i have tried from the get go to not push a "motherly" relationship with them and to go with the flow and here i am planning father's day and only one of them wants to be involved. idk if im just emtional from being pregnant or what the heck is going on, maybe i just need to distance myself from them emotionally. i know some would say to leave most of what i do for the dad, but he works long days and saturdays so they are mostly with me and my boys for their stay. i guess i need to explain why we are doing father's day early. I want all of the kids together when we give him his gifts so it doesn't feel so split. since my boys are going with their father saturday afternoon until monday for their normal stay, friday is the only time all of us will be together during the weekend. i guess im just venting, if im ever on the market again, i am definitely never dating someone with teenage girls again lol