Ok.. So far assband took me out for practice driving twice this week.and I wonder when will the third session will be. Found out he was being nice because sd will be here for I dont know how long and ill be the see glorified nanny. I told assband straight up I wont mind watching over her as long as she doesnt give me attitude (last time she did, he defended her) and respect me as the adult. I told him too that I expect he will spend time with her, after all that is what visitation is for, for the ncp to spend time with their kids. He hasnt replied. I wont be put in a situation where I dont know what to expect and what my role will be, what my job description and boundaries as well as rights. That wont work on me anymore.
This is what I texted him:
I dont mind watching over her as long as she doesnt give me attitude and respects me as the adult. I hope u dont plan to work all the time shes here, primary reason shes here is to spend time with her daddy. I cant take them out for any activity as I cant drive yet.
on Jun. 15, 2012 at 10:08 AM