Ok.. So far assband took me out for practice driving twice this week.and I wonder when will the third session will be. Found out he was being nice because sd will be here for I dont know how long and ill be the see glorified nanny. I told assband straight up I wont mind watching over her as long as she doesnt give me attitude (last time she did, he defended her) and respect me as the adult. I told him too that I expect he will spend time with her, after all that is what visitation is for, for the ncp to spend time with their kids. He hasnt replied. I wont be put in a situation where I dont know what to expect and what my role will be, what my job description and boundaries as well as rights. That wont work on me anymore.
This is what I texted him:
I dont mind watching over her as long as she doesnt give me attitude and respects me as the adult. I hope u dont plan to work all the time shes here, primary reason shes here is to spend time with her daddy. I cant take them out for any activity as I cant drive yet.
This is what I texted him:
I dont mind watching over her as long as she doesnt give me attitude and respects me as the adult. I hope u dont plan to work all the time shes here, primary reason shes here is to spend time with her daddy. I cant take them out for any activity as I cant drive yet.
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on Jun. 16, 2012 at 10:37 PM
Sd gave an attitude tonight, shes asking to do something with dd and I said no, gave her a reasonable answer but kept insisting, daddy butt in and told her no, but she kept pushing. However, daddy remain firm, then dd started whining, tired and wants to go to bed, I told assband she needs butt change, and sd meddled, told I better not change her there, I told her im not changing dd in the livingroom.daddy told her shes rude, she said shes watching tv, and daddy told her he can take her home.right now, shes on the fon with bm. I dont care, im not complaining because atleast assband is keeping a reign over his daughter.if he didnt reprimand her, they both would have heard from me.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 8:11 PM
Im pissed off.. Assband tries to have upper hand over me again. I asked him to drop me and the kids off to water park but he said no, instead told me we can go on thurs when sd is here.. Im getting sick of if sd is not here, we cant go out and have fun.its not fair to me and my kids.i spoke up and it ended into a nasty argument. Up to now, im still riled up. He always wants it his way, his plan and if he suddenly change plan, its fine, if I dare ask, hell no... Fuckin dictator! Claimed he also wants to spend time with the family, uh everyday after work, he spends most of his time on beer, cigarette and creep neighbor..hypocrite!
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 8:13 PM
do whatever you have to do to learn to drive.
do you have a learner's permit?
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 8:43 PM
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I do.im practicing the best I can with the limited time he gives me and the hard time he gives me too. Im sick of him controlling my life!
Quoting whatIknownow:do whatever you have to do to learn to drive.
do you have a learner's permit?
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:03 PM
So I have a question...
Did your DH marry you thinking he was getting a meek and mild asian girl that he could boss around, or what?
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:16 PM
Quoting sandeeyo:So I have a question...
Did your DH marry you thinking he was getting a meek and mild asian girl that he could boss around, or what?
I believe so. He cant make his ex who is american dance at the palm of his hand and thought asuan women are more submissive, particularly from 3rd world country. Hell... Thats what ill make his life.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:24 PM
Quoting findingserenity:
Quoting sandeeyo:
So I have a question...
Did your DH marry you thinking he was getting a meek and mild asian girl that he could boss around, or what?
I believe so. He cant make his ex who is american dance at the palm of his hand and thought asuan women are more submissive, particularly from 3rd world country. Hell... Thats what ill make his life.
Send him over here...I'll show him submissive. I made it a point to tell any man I dated that if they thought I was going to let them boss me around they had another think coming! LOL
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:30 PM
God if I can put him in a box right now ill send him to u the fastest way I can. im sick of him bossing me around. And we constantly argue now, he promised to teach me how to drive last sat but changed mind and mow the lawn instead and expected me to be alright, I let it pass, but now, I asked for something, all he need to do is drop us off, and pick us up, he couldnt do it..
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Quoting findingserenity:
Quoting sandeeyo:
So I have a question...
Did your DH marry you thinking he was getting a meek and mild asian girl that he could boss around, or what?
I believe so. He cant make his ex who is american dance at the palm of his hand and thought asuan women are more submissive, particularly from 3rd world country. Hell... Thats what ill make his life.
Send him over here...I'll show him submissive. I made it a point to tell any man I dated that if they thought I was going to let them boss me around they had another think coming! LOL
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They think she took him and ran...
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on Jun. 15, 2012 at 10:08 AM