When we dropped sd off last night dh said bm looked like she had been doing drugs. bm and i have a mutual friend who told me the other day she is cutting ties with bm. at the time i didnt ask any questions cause i really could care less about bm. so i called this friend and asked her why she is no longer friends with bm and this friend told me its cause bm admitted to using meth and stated her bf has been doing it around the kids!! since we have to proof we are afraid to call social services, they contact bm and bm take sd and run before we ever find out the truth......is there any better way to handle this? Who can we talk to??!!