Hello, My name is Mariza, I just got married in about 4 months ago. And I feel like giving quits all ready. My husband has three daughters 14,11,9 I have a Boy 12, and 7 girl. Large family!!! Dated him for 3 yrs. Everything use to be smooth but know being married table turned. Their mother has being manipulating them verry well. I feel like a picture frame on the wall. My husband gets them every wknd or when they want to. Whats worse is my kids are the ones being more affective. For example if I ask them to help me with something they wont do it unless their dad tells them. The little one like to play with my 7 yr old but she says her mom tells her that she is bad influence especially bc they r different religion. I approach some thing to my husband but all he tells me is that I can never understand bc I have my children with me 24hrs and he only has them on weekends. But it is getting agrevating for me bc I cant decide to go somewhere alone bc he puts his daughters as an excuse. Mine are not the problem my kids can go to my parents house. My ex husband died when I was pregnant on my 7 yr old. His 9yr old tells me some thing that their mom tells them that I am their maid thats why their dad married me. Also to give me a hard time and to be rude. Im not a bad person I consider my self nice, loving, caring person. I like to have thing organized, and I kind of old school. I dont belive in 10 yr old with cell phones. I like to to reward kids with thier good actions and help. Not on asking and giving for no reason. Please advice Im getting supper stressed out.