Thinking of sending a text to.......*e-mail added in red* - *new info*
Background: he has been MIA for about 2 years now and quit regular visitation years before that. But at least his nominal amount of CS came regulary (no doubt) because the state does it. And when I mean nominal, I mean was set when she was 2 years old and she is now 17.
CS has stopped for 2 and half months now. No phone call as to why, no nothing.
I WANT to send a text that sounds like this:
"Hey, what's up with the CS? You need to catch it up and get regular again and quick. If I have to go to court over this, I will file for a modification for it to be raised and at least make it worth my inconvenience. Also, going to court will probably raise a red flag somewhere about you not providing her with health insurance that you are court ordered to do and someone will figure out that the state picked her up. They will probably right that wrong and you will not only owe that but will be forced this time to show proof of insurance. Get it together."
If you were in this guys life and read that text, what would you think?
I finally got a chance this morning to read my DH this email that I DID send. (not sure he reads emails though).
DH said, "I'm calling him today" I said, "go for it".
Background. DH has been in DD (17) life since she was in diapers. Although I am acting administrator for his business, I am currently at home.(I am the one who created this business for him) The only way I make money, is through the LLC of our business. Meaning, I pay myself through his pay on paper for tax purposes. Which basically means, DH makes all the money, I dispurse it through the home which also means, DH is funding my part of raising her. Kinda. Let's just say, my employer is my husband and I am acting president of company.
He feels that this is the least ex could do for his daughter also. He left her life physically. But he needs to do his share in the financial dept. He feels that since he is the one now funding my ex's portion of raising her, he will be the one to call him and find out what's up.
Bash away. lol
Stay tuned for an update. I'm sure DH will call after his convo with him.