so summer vacation is here (today was the last day of school) and of course bm and dh didn't make a plan ahead of time (even though I picked up 2 sets of community magazines full of different summer programs instead of day care. So...now they're arguing because bm wants dh to switch his schedule and he can't do everything she wants and I over hear them yelling (on the phone) about me? wtf does this have to do with me? I didn't have this kid. I love this kid for sure, but you bet if she was my kid she would have been enrolled in a summer enrichment camp 2 months ago. how do you handle this personally? I know there"s nothing to "handle" i just mean like...it hurts my feelings, i hear them arguing and its about me when this has nothing to do with me. Ouch. what do you do to not be bothered by this?