Ive been with my SO for 2 years and half now and we have a 6 month old baby. He has a son from his previous relationship. He sees his son every weekend and 99% of the weekends I am the one caring for him. He never asked me if it bothered me he just assumed that since we are together it is ok for me to take that responsibility. I had no problem with it until I realized that he never spends time with him. He works from 11am-9pm and comes home exhausted. I feel like the only reason he tells his BM he can have him for the weekends is because he wants to please her. I think she knows that I am the one watching him but she never even cared to try to get to know me. I don't have a job because I have no family to help take care of my baby. Money is an issue right now and barely making ends meet. So considering day care is out of the question. I try to bond with his son but no matter what I do nothing gets through to him. Hes 8 turning 9 nd I feel like im talking to a 5 year old at times. Now that summer has reached his mother decided to tell my SO that he should stay here for the summer and he said yes, knowing he will be working full time with no time to take care of him. I am starting to feel a little bit of resentment because I never have a chance to go out and have fun with my child. Now I have to worry about taking more responsibility. He has no bedroom here and I feel like I have no privacy as a woman. Idk what to do Im overwhelmed. Any advice???