I live with my SO and my 3 kids (their dad is not him). Anyway my SO has 2 kids who are my Stepkids. One 4 yr old boy and a 9 yr old girl. Usually we take them every other weekend but now that the SD is outta school things will be different. She had her heart set on living with us this summer but her mom wont allow it for the whole summer. so its going to be 2 weeks there and 2 weeks here type deal. anyway SO just got another job where hes working all week and 2 weekends out of the month. so if SD comes here for 2 weeks at a time it will be on me to take care of her. i have a hard enough time taking care of my kids all 5 and under. the 9 yr old gets bored easily and is very demanding. telling me shes an adult and can be in on adult conversations. she also eats nonstop when here. last weeknd she polished off the rest of the strawberries which i bout for everyone not just her and fixes herself snacks all day long. SO and i are on a tight food budget and she never saves things for the other kids. im already stressing out about having to watch her. SO does so much for my kids i cant find it in my heart to say no but i think its reaally unfair while BM and my SO work im stuck with her for 2 weeks. she gets upset when i tell her to go downstairs. i love the girl but she gets on my nerves and can never just be content. i have to keep her entertained all day long its tiring. my boys will just go outside and play and she doesnt want a part of that. not sure what to do.