DH has full custody. BM has visitation.
In the court order, she was suppose to get 2 overnights a week, and every wednesday. That was 2010.
Since Mid 2011, she has only been taking eow. She requested it because she needed more "me" time on weekends. She said it was inconvenient having the kids every weekend. So we happily agreed, because that means more time with the kids for us.
When she has the kids eow, she doesn't spend all weekend with them, per her Dad. This weekend for example, the kids stayed at BM's Moms house. The kids were with BM part of the day saturday, but none at all on friday or sunday. We are glad they got to see their Grandparents though. She also calls DH's family asking if they want the kids on her weekends.
So my point...
BM's Dad asked said they think they may want to go back to having the kids every weekend depending on his plans and her schedule (BM just got fired, and isn't planning on looking for a job according to her Dad)
Our issue with it: Should we keep the Status Quo? It's been eow for almost the past year. The kids know the schedule, and we have a routine. On their weekends with us, we do family stuff, or visit DH's family with the kids because they all live an hour away.
The Prek's opinion was to keep it as is, because it's what the kids know, and it's stable. But we don't want to be accused of keeping the kids from her. She just doesn't seem to understand that it's not fair to the kids to only have them when it's convenient for her :(