My assband refused to let me and the babies go out and have fun, as I cant drive, I asked him, he doesnt want to go so I said just drop us off but he said no and told me well go when sd is here. Oh he said he wants to have time with family too, uh everyday he spends most of the time outside smokin, drinking beer and chatting with creepy neighbor, he seldom helps with the babies.wtf?!
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:11 PM
Ill give my assband to anyone who can help me understand.. hes all yours!
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:20 PM
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I think you already know the answer. This guy is just an ass.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:20 PM
You can keep assband...lol but sounds like he has self esteem issues and is scared that if he lets you out into the world ( so to speak) you will find someone better. He sounds abusive to me.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:32 PM
Oh I will pay u if u will take him, with every penny I got.
Quoting blaquechinadoll:
You can keep assband...lol but sounds like he has self esteem issues and is scared that if he lets you out into the world ( so to speak) you will find someone better. He sounds abusive to me.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:39 PM
My DH went through the whole daddy guilt thing. The first time we went to the beach after our first DS was born he actually asked me to just not say anything to s-kids about us going. It really ticked me off because when BM took them to the beach it was all we heard about for weeks, but I was supposed to keep our trip a secret. It finally came out when we were taking s-kids to the beach a couple months later and SD made a comment about this being DS's first time at the beach. DH finally came clean and it really didn't seem to bother either of them. In your case though, I agree with previous posts, he sounds like an ass.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:43 PM
You can keep him. But my bet is at he sees his going out as "justified". Because he works. When you take sd out you doing something he wants you do to. When you take the other kids out, you are wasting his money...
He's a narcissist. Unload the bastard.
He's a narcissist. Unload the bastard.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:49 PM
The thing us, these babies are also his biokids, and as I cant take them out as much as I can, I grab every opportunity that goes my way, I havent been around people for a long while and its not easy for a sociable person like me, now, I cant even hold an intelligent or out of the house topic with anybody as im trapped inside the walls of this house.
Quoting chanizen:
You can keep him. But my bet is at he sees his going out as "justified". Because he works. When you take sd out you doing something he wants you do to. When you take the other kids out, you are wasting his money...
He's a narcissist. Unload the bastard.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:51 PM
Yeah..there are better men.. Just too late. I wish ive known them before I got married
Quoting blaquechinadoll:
You can keep assband...lol but sounds like he has self esteem issues and is scared that if he lets you out into the world ( so to speak) you will find someone better. He sounds abusive to me.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:54 PM
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Its not fair..its one reality of steplife, heck even in intact family, there are times, one if the family member cant make it or be there. But our lives may intertwine, doesnt mean, u have to b the center of everybody's life.
Quoting MamaK313:
My DH went through the whole daddy guilt thing. The first time we went to the beach after our first DS was born he actually asked me to just not say anything to s-kids about us going. It really ticked me off because when BM took them to the beach it was all we heard about for weeks, but I was supposed to keep our trip a secret. It finally came out when we were taking s-kids to the beach a couple months later and SD made a comment about this being DS's first time at the beach. DH finally came clean and it really didn't seem to bother either of them. In your case though, I agree with previous posts, he sounds like an ass.
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 10:18 PM
I've heard this before my vote is GUILT. But just a suggestion my DH has been going to AA and belive me that helps allot not just for drinking but it also tells them the honest truth in their face. Their is even women there so if he speaks about his problems people advice. I know for my HS it has helped allot..
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on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:10 PM