Tonight the girls are in the bathroom washing up...
sd11's in the bath
dd8's washing her face/brushing her teeth.
SD11 asks me to help her out of the tub-and starts choking and coughing really bad....to the point she's bent over gagging and coughing up shit.
DD8 grabs me my phone and I call DH at work-at this point SD11's gasping grabbing her throat-hacking up whatever's in her guts (she was coughing HEAVILY)
so DH calls BM to come get SD11 and take her to the doctor-she was next town over 5min car ride away.
An HOUR LATER-she pulls up and starts bitching how she's late for work-SD11 gets in the car-and immediately is yelling at SD11 "what's wrong with you now ?" "what did you do now>?"
yeah you havent seen/talked to your kid in TEN DAYS and this is how you treat her?!
Eventually takes her to the ER (asthma attack)
ER doctor told BM-take her to get tested because her lungs are in rough shape-so she sets up the appt to do so.....I"ve been with DH for FIVE YEARS and every year-the same time every year we go through this shit and DH keeps telling BM to get SD11 checked out for allergies-and yet she never does until finally NOW.
I'm waiting for BM to come dump her back off to me-god forbid she calls out of work (her 2h a day cleaning job) to take care of her daughter. SD11's on a nebulizer and is bringing some kind of machine to help her breathe.
FYI-she brought the kids here 2 weeks ago-the day after I left DH-and hasn't seen them since. She hasn't called or asked about them either. She dumped YDD4 at Douche Bag's house and shipped her skids off to their father's family in tennessee for the rest of the summer, so she's got NO KIDS AT HOME. So there's no excuse for her not to take care of SD11. Lazy ass bitch.
I'm so pissed off right now I could spit nails.
SO BM just left with the kids-she took all 3 of her kids to the doctor. Seems that the ER doctors/the ER tech/DH and I were all somewhat wrong.
sD11 and BM's ydd4 got poked and prodded-turns out they got bronchitis.
The doctor examined ss5 as well-he's normal. Because we had such a mild winter-there's an excess of pollen in our area-seems the girls' lungs were a little clogged which led to the bronchitis.
So both girls are on nebulizers and albuterol. And a few other meds.
So she took the kids home with her since SS5 was being a little nasty mean shit to everyone. (it's because of MIL leaving and DD8 and I moving back in with DH) and SD11 just wanted to spend sometime with her mom. But we got to have some fun together today for a little bit :)
There is my update