Tonight the girls are in the bathroom washing up...
sd11's in the bath
dd8's washing her face/brushing her teeth.
SD11 asks me to help her out of the tub-and starts choking and coughing really bad....to the point she's bent over gagging and coughing up shit.
DD8 grabs me my phone and I call DH at work-at this point SD11's gasping grabbing her throat-hacking up whatever's in her guts (she was coughing HEAVILY)
so DH calls BM to come get SD11 and take her to the doctor-she was next town over 5min car ride away.
An HOUR LATER-she pulls up and starts bitching how she's late for work-SD11 gets in the car-and immediately is yelling at SD11 "what's wrong with you now ?" "what did you do now>?"
yeah you havent seen/talked to your kid in TEN DAYS and this is how you treat her?!
Eventually takes her to the ER (asthma attack)
ER doctor told BM-take her to get tested because her lungs are in rough shape-so she sets up the appt to do so.....I"ve been with DH for FIVE YEARS and every year-the same time every year we go through this shit and DH keeps telling BM to get SD11 checked out for allergies-and yet she never does until finally NOW.
I'm waiting for BM to come dump her back off to me-god forbid she calls out of work (her 2h a day cleaning job) to take care of her daughter. SD11's on a nebulizer and is bringing some kind of machine to help her breathe.
FYI-she brought the kids here 2 weeks ago-the day after I left DH-and hasn't seen them since. She hasn't called or asked about them either. She dumped YDD4 at Douche Bag's house and shipped her skids off to their father's family in tennessee for the rest of the summer, so she's got NO KIDS AT HOME. So there's no excuse for her not to take care of SD11. Lazy ass bitch.
I'm so pissed off right now I could spit nails.
Carry on.
******UPDATE*****
SO BM just left with the kids-she took all 3 of her kids to the doctor. Seems that the ER doctors/the ER tech/DH and I were all somewhat wrong.
sD11 and BM's ydd4 got poked and prodded-turns out they got bronchitis.
The doctor examined ss5 as well-he's normal. Because we had such a mild winter-there's an excess of pollen in our area-seems the girls' lungs were a little clogged which led to the bronchitis.
So both girls are on nebulizers and albuterol. And a few other meds.
So she took the kids home with her since SS5 was being a little nasty mean shit to everyone. (it's because of MIL leaving and DD8 and I moving back in with DH) and SD11 just wanted to spend sometime with her mom. But we got to have some fun together today for a little bit :)
There is my update
Damn. What the hell woman? If my kid was having issues like that they'd be home with me.
You hold the bat and I'll skip next to you singing, "Someone's gonna get it!"
Poor kid, I'd be hard pressed to keep a civil tongue in my head if our BM did that with the girls.
Quoting sandeeyo:You hold the bat and I'll skip next to you singing, "Someone's gonna get it!"
Poor kid, I'd be hard pressed to keep a civil tongue in my head if our BM did that with the girls.
ugh!!! DON"T TEMPT ME!!!!
lol this poor baby-came walking in-shaking hardcore-gave her some juice and a few cookies and sent her to bed-she's plum worn out!
So BM walks in-tries to explain the process to me (NEVERMIND THAT MY DAUGHTER USES THIS THING) and just hands over the scripts and ins card and walks right back out.
SAYANORA BEOTCH!
maybe the kids will stay with us another 10 days before she bothers coming back around
Quoting Bells2000:some people should not reproduce....
The poor SD! Asthma + possible allergies does not sound like fun! And if she is anything like a few of my sisters, getting majorly upset/etc can also bring on an attack. :(
she was fine til she went to get out-poor baby was TRYING so hard to keep calm-she kept grabbing her throat-DD8 held her and was trying to soothe her-SS% WAS BEING A LIL SHITHEAD and teasing the girls-HE'S LUCKY I DON'T SPANK-because his butt would be red raw!
her eyes blew up-red blotches on her face-the meds kicked in (i made her pop a benedryl) but she was still freaking out-now that she's back home with us-she's doingbetter-the ER medicated her-she's happy
Quoting rocknmom85:
Are you seperated from your dh (the father)? I was a little confused.
sorry....yeah about 2 weeks I left-I took DD8 and left. I came back home the other day.
Quoting angelmommy2806:Damn. What the hell woman? If my kid was having issues like that they'd be home with me.
think about it-she hasn't bothered to call her kids in TEN DAYS-what makes you think she really cares to take the night off to take care of SD11?!
She's better off staying here with me and DH anyways.
Would you be insulted? And a second question...
- Tigress22304
on Jun. 25, 2012 at 9:47 PM