See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
My Fiance and I have been together for just about a yr now. I have a 2yr old SD. We are currently starting a custody battle with BM for SD. She spent 80% of her first yr with his sister because he was deployed and BM was running around (all of which we have documented proof of.) When we went to court for the temporary hearing the judge spent a grant total of 5 mins speaking. Without so much as looking at the paperwork or talking to anyone he announced that they would each get 3 mons with her and since we had her that BM would get the first 3 mons. :-( We go to pick her up in 2 weeks (out of state) and I am truely confused weather to be over joyed or ready for battle. BM has already made this process a living hell. She only called to start fights (not about SD), called the police to visit us at 2am, and even called CPS (case dropped) just because she didn't get her way. I love my SD to death but when BM can't control things she makes the situation miserable. What do I do?