And I'm not...never have been.
I met my DH long after things went sour with his ex wife. But she still calls him for every little thing (all hours of the night), shows up unannounced and acts like *I'M* the intruder in the house, and cries to my DH about all her boyfriend drama. She's a drug addict and basically homeless. I know my DH still cares about her as a friend but it's gotten to the point where I feel like I'm seriously the other woman.
I told him tonight that when our baby gets here, she is no longer welcome INSIDE our house. I do not want her dramatics or crazy drama anywhere near my DS or my newborn. He was like, "okay...." and called me hormonal. But seriously? How much of her shit do I have to put up with in MY own house? She treats my SKs like they are an excuse for her to come over from time to time....and basically only shows up when she knows that they aren't here.
I love my DH...but I honestly do not want to deal with this woman for the rest of my life. He keeps telling me, "Don't worry: she'll be dead soon." Because she has a very rough lifestyle...it's awful for him to say and I don't wish something bad to happen to her. I just want her to respect the fact that we are married, having a baby soon, and trying to move on with OUR lives...but I guess you can't really expect much from a druggie, right?
I'm just frustrated and kind of hurt. It's like, my feelings don't really matter and *I'm* his WIFE now.