My 5 year old never wants to call or go see her mom and we have no clue why! My DH and BM live in different states. ( at one point we all lived in the same state) Custody was shared and there were NO issues. Now when she is with her mom she crys non stop for her dad. When she would come she would break down every time it was time to go. I have heard of a daddys girl , but why doesn't she want to spend time with her mom.
Her mom is sending for her in a few weeks to come visit but she does not want to go. She is not being treated bad there, her mom misses her along with her other family that spoil the mess out of her. I tried talking with her and she says she wants her dad and mom to live in one house. That shocked us cause they have not lived together since she was an infant. I have been in her life she was 2. I really don't understand how to address this or what to say to her. She has to go see her mom, but all parties involved hate to see her cry cause she absolutely does not want to go. The weird part is her dad is at work all the time so it's not even like he is spending alot of time with her. What should we do?