Anyone heard or been in situation "HUSBAND IN VISITIATION INSTEAD OF CHILD"?
Another day and as my God words of encouragemnt says "...renewing of your mind...(Roman 12:2) A suggestion to all those that have been posting negative comments, this is an amazing teaching, if you allow it to soak in. So yes, new perspective for I found another site and maybe its for me to help someone that is probably to scared to post because of such harsh words could lead to, from another person. As you can see I don't scare easily and yet my God has helped me to understand, becaue I asked the only one who can help this mess my husband created, and is...now as He has, I have compassion for those who attack others. To those that can relate here are some encouaging words. Email me off post to get complete site. The part that pertains to us says "STEPPARENT VISITATION RIGHTS: Even though, for whatever reason (divorce, death of the natural parent, etc.) the stepparent is no longer responsible for the upbringing of the child, the stepparent may obtain rights to visitation. Depending on the role the stepparent played in the care and nurturing of the child, it may be traumatic on the child to completely sever this relationship. We can assist clients in petitioning for visitation rights.
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I have made the choice and wait to post the outcome and anyone that can relate and needs to talk...don't post just write to me off site. There should be a button for email or friend me and I will get back to you. I have compassion for all those SMoms that are going through your own trials, truly Romans 12:2 helps in many ways. If your heart and mind is open He is there for you...
-MommaDos July 4th
a perfect day that represents FREEDOM...this is how my God ministers to me with days like this. the truths does set you free...ty Jesus
HAD TO ADD FROM ORIGINAL POST (both done July 3rd), READ BELOW:
Looking for articles or just some good info or to hear someone else that may have experienced my situation. I am a woman of faith not a door mat...just in case anyone is thinking I am stupid to stay. While the 4 times I thought to leave as I prayed God has told me and comforted me reason too. My life is not my own but my own to make the choice to choose for if I don't stand for my family no one else is going to and yet I know one day my testimony or story will encourage someone else...though it may look my family is coming to an end as I was served "Dissolution of Marriage" the other day. Yes, many are say great now you can get on with your life. True, and yet I know with God all things are possible no matter how sick of a scandral my husband is. Don't get me wrong he has a long road of recovery and to fulfill a long list of requirements to work towards.
But now as my stepson is turning 4 years old I can establish to the court...no matter how little of time he has come over he calls me "momma dos" (momma two). It to complicanted to write down but I just need to prepare even if my attorney has not heard. I know this issue is rare but I know I am not the only one since I have one article saved but need a few more.
***11:57 I had posted this aroun 9am and I have so many others things I need to do. So many reply's but I can't get to all of them. I have answered most of your questions and yes a few have gotten it "my husband and I have 3 amazings son 23yrs, 21yrs and 18. In our second marrige to eachother he had another son". As the many times I thought to leave God shared many things that I made the choice to stay. Some have voiced to keep my faith out of it. BUT I am sorry this is who I am if you don't like please move on. The sad thing is that some are expressing I am not answering their questions but I have but ODDLY they are not asking mine that I post as in my title. IF YOU HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED OR KNOW OF ANYONE WHAT I AM GOING THROUGH WHY ARE YOU POSTING. I didn't post to be questioned with no solution to my problem. It sounds like those that have questions are trying to counsel me, I am good I have a great and might counselor I was reaching out to anyone that is or has gone through what I am. So unless your post does respond to a solution to my issue or needs some info on what I have researched than I will say good day and blessings.