Does BM's husband, or SO, cause any problems? Or does he take a silent role in the background?
My SD's bm is not married, so we don't have to deal with this.
Yes and no. parenting wise, no. but ultimately yes. He has PTSD from being in the Marines and awoled. He has these blackouts and doesn't remember then. He got up one night and hid in SD's room under the bed with an army knife saying they were coming, she had to be quiet so they didn't find him. She screamed as he hag a BIG knife and she was scared. many of these incidents have happened.
bm's so has caused some issues. he threatned dh a few times. he gets involved with conversations between bm and dh, but he is also abusive to bm to the point of dh witnessing her getting slapped for dh telling him to but out.
her last so was a child molester and molested her dd and would abuse ss. we didnt find out till after he went back to jail.
her so befor that was ok lazy but ok
the one befor that was her ex husband he high tailed it out in 2 months
and befor that was the guy dh thought was great. he was a nice guy worked, was trying to get bm on her feet and to be a mom. she dumped him
yes all of these men lived in her home. not even mentioning how many one night stands she had. this is what i know of. there could be more . this is in a 6 yr time frame.
but dh gets told her drags women in and out of ss life. lol its only been me.
Bm's so is an awesome guy-he stays in the background for the most part-however he's a hands on father with his kids and our skids :) he doesn't overstep in any way though which is good :)
Not so far. But SO knows him and knows his background, so I highly doubt BM's boyfriend will want to cause anything. SO knows allllll about why he lost HIS kids.
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