Dad finally sees the problem , but how do we fix it!!!
So my 5 year old SD came to live with us full time. Which is what she really wanted she is a bonafide daddys girl. Her mom and I both made complaints in the past but we were both always greeted with SHE DOESN'T DO THAT WITH ME by her dad. Now that she has come to live with us he sees it! She is a 5 year old spoiled brat!!! I believe there is a need not being met but I have no clue what's wrong.
Any time she is not the center of attention she finds something wrong. Tummy hurts, she crys, any major crisis she can use to get the focus on her. If I go sit on my husbands lap or hug him all of a sudden she wants to do it to , but in a way that forces me to move because she will stretch out or move all around till I have to move. Most recently she has started lying and and dangerous lies.
One morning she woke up before me , but she never came out of her room. So around 8am her dad came in from work and I hear her tell him she is starving and i would not feed her!!! She usually comes in the bedroom wakes me up and I fix her breakfast. This was a holiday ( which is why i did not have alarm set) So she got in trouble for that. She also started crying on the phone she wants her daddy when her mom called but he was sitting the right there !!! So she gets on him like are you spending time with her!!! Yesterday she was doing the lap thing again trying to push me off and punched me accidently in the eye and I told her she needed to be careful. So she proceeded to talk back and tell me it didn't hurt and would not apologize. So my response is thats not nice you would want me to apologize if I hit you . You could have bruised my eye and it would have turned black and ugly. All of a sudden she starts screaming ( thank God her dad witnessed the whole thing) cause when he asks her whats wrong she says I said I was going to punch her in the eye and give her a black eye!!!! I don't know what to do , she makes me afraid to be alone with her cause she just lies. What should we do? I am so frutrated. he finally believes us and is like OMG my daughter is a liar and a brat, but now what. I am being patient but lies like that could be dangerous!