SD's BF's father is creepy! UPDATE...CREEPER IS A LIAR
What do you all think about this?
Sd goes to BM's (a hour and a half away) 2 weeks ago hooked up with a boy now in a relationship. Past weekend she wanted to go again. She apparently spent the entire weekend with this boy and his father (against our wishes of course) . We already thought the BF's father was overboard leaing messages on SD's facebook saying stuff like "if you need anything I am here for you" .. "You didnt say goodbye to me :( " etc. The BF never leaves her messages just the father. Well the father went to school with my DH .. he with 7 other boys jumped my DH and beat the crap out of him. My DH really wants nothing to do with him... not only because of that but because of SD dating this boy she is totally different disrespectful and a major attitude. The father sent my DH a fb request 4 times saturday.. my DH kept ignoring. My DH texted SD asking what he wants and she says "he just want to be your friend". Well my DH has 3 of her ex bf's on ignore for fb and doesnt want to be in any kid drama. So the Father messages my DH's best friend and tells him to have call him (sat) then yesterday sent 4 more messages to his best friend demanding that he call and that my DH is childish, immature and selfish because they need to work out these KIDS problems! Really kinda sick that a parent is that worried about his sons 2 week realationship with SD. I told DH to tell him there is only one child we are concerned about and not premoting a relationship with his son nor with the boy she snuck out with on July 4th! Really turns my stomach how this man is freaking out over trying to hook his son up with SD. We got her out of that situation and town for a reason and this is just dragging her back into it. DH doesnt want to call this man because he is afraid he will lose his temper with the rude comments he made to his friend. Any suggestions on how to deal with this ?...( we are in our 40's just all seems childish to me.)
SD admitted she stayed at her boyfriends house 3 of the 4 nights she was supposed to be at moms. She wanted her phone back and DH said when she was honest she could have it. After telling him the truth he responded to the creepy bf's father and he said "for whatever its worth she did not stay the night here". I dont believe the SD would tell that tale knowing how much trouble she would be in if it were not true. Why would the man lie though? Really makes me think he is a bigger creeper!