Want to SCREAM!!! ** update CPS showed up! New update 10/2
As usual, dh and I aren't seeing eye to eye with discipline...
This is the 2nd time his son has threatened to "shoot" someone on fb! Not only has he made threats but this kids profile pic is of him with a gun (they
go up on Mtn n shoot at
First of all
his fb should
away... He also
talking to because that kind
behavior is not normal and
shouldn't b tolerated. I told dh he <
/> needs to explain the seriousness
making threats like that. But
Of course he gets all pissy when I try
to talk to him about his son! It's
And if he doesn't
wanna talk aboutit,
he shuts it
down immediately! He's
impossible!!!! What he needs to
understand is he's gotta get a
on this kid now before
he ends up in
And if ur asking why I care or why I
don't let him raise his own son? Well,
I'll tell u why... My kids are in this
home as well and I don't want my
son (especially) thinking that type of
behavior is ok! It's bad enough he
snuck out his window onto the roof n
started lighting stuff on fire and then
stomping it out! Did he get in any
trouble for that!?Nope! And he did it
right in front of my 10 yr old son!!!
Ughhh! Sorry, I had to get this out
CPS showed up this morning!
The woman said they received a report about step son's behavioral problems and that there were guns in the house...
She's coming back tonight to talk to dh (he was working)
She said she can "refer" step son to the PINS program and counseling but it's up to his dad to follow thru.
She also let me kno if anything happens and we kno about step son making threats and the guns that we will be charged as well.
New UPDATE: 10/2
He went to counseling.... 3 times. The woman said she didnt feel he needed counseling. She said he was just "impulsive"
Not much has changed... no more gun threats but he has become "hands on" with my kids.... My son is very intimidated by him. He grabbed a hold of my son and my son said, u cant hurt me or something along those lines and step son said oh yea!? Who's gonna stop me!? He has also pushed my 3 yr old daughter on a couple different occassions. IDK what the hell to do. This has taken a toll on our marriage BIG TIME! And I often wonder if Im fighting a losing battle! DO I try to get him into see a different counselor? or do I just throw in the towel and say enough is enough!? ugh