So my DH ex wife seems to think she runs my household. The custody arrangement states we get the kids for one month at the beginning of summer. We have had them since May 24th. I understand it is just a couple of weeks over but it is ridiculous. She drops them off every weekend when its only supposed to be every other weekend and she calls him constantly to watch them so she can drink with her friends. Even if we are not home or out of town she drops them off on our porch and tells us they are there so we have to drop everything and go home. Once we were 3 hrs out of town and the cops called us angry for having the kids locked out. We had to go to court for neglect and prove we were gone when she dropped them off. She is now saying she will not take them because she doesnt have any where for them to stay. It didnt stop her last summer when we were living on a friends couch. We still had them that whole summer. She did get them in daycare (so she says) they havent started yet. She said she will take them there and bring them back to my house. Our end of the deal is up am i wrong to be upset with her? Also, she gets over 200 a month in foodstamps and does not help us at all and it is difficult to make ends meet with 3 extra kids I had not expected to be 100% responsible for. There has got to be something I can do right???