I dont understand so would like to hear from bm and sm
I am both a mom (no sm for my ds4 yet) and sm. I see a lot on here that sm's can't pick up kids or be the one to recieve kids if bd not there, watch kids, go to sk events even if bd and sk wants etc. all per the bm. and I see a lot of people on here back the bm up on this. However the bd is to accept whoever the bm chooses as so/sf. they get to go to all the events, do pu/do How is this at all fair? Why does it all revolve on what bm wants? last time I checked bd is a parent too.