Hi! Okay, so here's what I need some guidance on..... I have become involved with a man going through a divorce. Yes, yes, yes, the papers have been filed and no, I wasn't the cause. LOL He has a 5 year old daughter who is autistic. Although the ex has been somewhat of a problem, I want to be the best step mum that I can. The ex has been saying some non flattering things to the daughter about myself. I realise that she is still in love with Dad and is hurting quite a bit, but it is over.... What can I do?