First off, my family and I are not extremely close. My bio mom doesn't interact with my children so they have only my dh, his parents and me for holidays and celebrations. I was trying to discuss birthday/Christmas plans with dh because money is tight and he doesn't want to get our usual RAL from income tax and we r looking at around $100 for each kid for Christmas. He suggested spending $125 on ea of the older children (ss16 & sd14) because the things they want are more expensive, leaving ds8 & dd18 mo with $75 ea for Christmas gifts. I was/am against that because they get 2of everything...christmas, birthday, Thanksgiving etc. So we are arguing and I'm so tired of all the stress...am I being a b****?
on Jul. 18, 2012 at 11:13 PM