Question about giving bm dh's social security #......Update
Dh carries insurance on SD's. He has medical, dental, vision, and life insurance on all the kids. BM is getting the girl's check UPS before They start kindergarten. The card we gave her apparently won't pull up the dental and vision coverage, so she wants Dh's social security #. I do know the coverage can be pulled up with it, but we aren't crazy about giving out his number to her. I honestly don't think she'd do anything with it that she shouldn't, but we'd rather play it safe.
She sent a text to me saying the girls have a dental appointment today so she needs the number. Dh is sleeping. He got home from work at 8 and has to be back at work at 9 tonight. Would it be reasonable for me to ask for the dentists info so that i can call and give them the information? He has been working a lot and I hate to wake him up, especially since she knows he sleeps during the day and waited til now to ask.
Update: I sent a text that said to send the number and we would take care of it. So I called and gave them the information they needed to see the girls for their appointment. DH and BM were never married, so that is why she doesn't know his ss#.