Hey ladies, I have a issue. My dh wants me and the kids (we have 1 together and he has 2 and I have 1 for a total of 4) to go to Ny to see his mom. I do not mind going but it seems everytime we go we end up not doing anything and just "chillin".
The only reason why I even considered is because his mom wants are 3month old baby to get baptised down there. This "trip" will supposedly take place labor day weekend. He wants to go to the club and the labor day parade and not take the children and pawn them off on his mom. His mom owns a restaurant in Ny so I dont think that she is going to have anytime at all besides that Sunday to even hang with us
Everytime I go we always have a bad experience. The first time was for his moms wedding (we were engaged at that time) and he left me with my daughter and his son in front of the church talking to people, then that night left me and the kids at his moms so he can hang with his old friends. His excuse was that he did not want me around them because they were wild. DH ass almost got left for real. Second time was our anniversary, please tell me why I was weened into basically working and cooking in his moms restaurant. Then he decided to go get his son so we had him for the whole time we were there!
The only thing we did was go to fuckin dave n busters and a movie (which we had to wait til SS went to sleep before we left) and run errands for his mom and his sister. My thing is if I have time off or a vacation I want it worth while. Im not going to go all that way just to "chill". I can do that at my own home w/o paying any expenses. I am the type of person that if we go out of town I wanna know where we gonna go in sunshine, rain, sleet, or snow.
It's way tooooo much to do in Ny to do just to be sittin around in a restaurant or at MIL house. Funny thing is is that DH use to live in Ny for 3yrs+. So how come DH acts like he doesnt know the hot spots to go? I dunno I'm not going..I dont think.