I know that because of SS and BM, DH had set in his mind he either did not want any more kids or wanted to wait a very long time to have another. I didn't like that idea, I wanted to be a bio mother. We eventually decided to try for a baby, and three years later we got DD. DH and I have talked about more. We are for sure going to try for another. If it is a boy, DH wants to stop but he won't rule out a third child for us, but he is comfortable with two. If the next one is a girl, he said we are definately trying one more time.
Does your husband know how many kids he wants? Is he done? Or does he want more?
We never started, and we are already done. We have SD, his bio daughter, and that's enough for us to barely handle every other weekend. He never wanted a kid, and when he agreed to have one, he didn't think one second about what having a kid actually meant. Which is why he ended up divorced...
When we first started dating, he always said he wanted another. But as time went on, I gently helped him realize he has zero desire to be a full time dad, he can't even handle SD alone for five minutes. And I'm not getting stuck with raising a kid on my own full time! I never wanted kids either. So we're good with a half time lovely little lady.
My husband has 1. I have none. I want 2 so my husband wants 3 and then hes getting neutered :)
We are so done. LOL When we started dating he was on chemo for testicular cancer and he warned me that he probably would never be able to have kids if we got married. I was fine with that since I had my son with ex. Then a year after chemo I got prego. And then we tried for a girl and had no issues. He went in for a vasectomy after our DD was born.
He has one and would probably like a small zoo if he could. I'm really not sure, I'd like one of my own, that's about it I think.
Step kids and extracurriculars
- ShannaBee
on Jul. 29, 2012 at 5:13 PM