Sd19 wants dh(which is her dad) to take her places Wednesday. Ok, that's when I get paid as well as dh. Wednesday is enrollment for DS and sd11. So I wanted to enroll them, I told dh how it not fair how I have to work around sd19 schedule and how its not right that dh is making her first priority. We have CPS on our back for 6 more months and they already said they need to be enrolled in school. So I go on telling him that if we don't enroll them they can say we are neglecting their education. I am so irratated real bad and dh is on sd19. To top it off she DONT even live with us.
Dh was like she will make sure they take the kids again. Ah no because they are false. All they will do is look into it and if they are not true then she will get in trouble. But like always dh is kissing sd19 ass. Dh will lose our kids on his own if he kisses her ass. But I will call my worker and ask her about it.
Dh should tell sd19 I can't take you til we get everything we need to get done first after we are done I will take you not until then. But what he says let me kiss your ass. Basically.
If you are enrolling the kids what does it matter what DH does with his daughter?
If you are feeling that your husband is putting his daughter's needs to run errands above your needs to enroll your children in school, you should have a long talk with him. You are his partner. You're needs, especially as they relate to taking care of the kids should be primary. The 19 year old can either take care of herself or wait until the younger kids are taken care of to get her ride. Don't hesitate to make it very clear that you need his support.
She may not be able to with step kids. Somtimes you just can't fill everything out and have to have spouce up there to give consent for them to sign papers. The 19 year old can wait. She has her own life now. The school for younger children is a priority. Then the 19 year old. If cps says they have to be enrolled, then don't mess around with it. I'm sure you will lose your kids if the cps is going to be hard on you. Sometimes they just don't mess around.
do the kids actually have to be there for enrollment? if they dont why doesnt he just go and do it while hes doing the 19 year olds errands
Quoting beaularson91:do the kids actually have to be there for enrollment? if they dont why doesnt he just go and do it while hes doing the 19 year olds errands
why not have him drop you off and he do errands with his daughter while you enroll the kids?
SS ten years old w anxiety?
Appropriate or not? Emotional BM
- parisonmom
on Jul. 29, 2012 at 7:03 PM