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My SS,13 and 15,have been living with us for 3 years.Dad and I have been married for 9 years.We have full custody.Mom has only seen them 3 times in the last 3 years.Her choice. All was going pretty well until BM got "help" and has been calling more and showing up to visit more. For the past few months the 13 yr old SS has been crazy. He has always had anger problems,but recently they are out of control. Threatenng to kill me or his dad. He also threatens to break my neck. Everything his dad or I say to him, he comes back with the cruelest response he can.
I sleep with my door locked and a baseball bat next to me. We have tried to get help for him, but in the state where we live a 13 yr old can refuse counseling. I am so lost and full of anxiety. We have no idea where to go from here.Any advice is welcome. The 15 year old has accepted help and is doing great.