can you plz explain why it's her and not your own?!
Most of you know my background. DH and I are the NCPs of ss6 and sd11 (sd11 is BM's daughter from a previous relationship-DH claims her as his kid but never formally adopted her)BM is the CBM/CSM of sd13/my sd11/ss9/my ss6 and ydd 4. There are issues between bm and sd11 and between sd13/11.
yesterday I posted about getting to spend the day with sd11-we got mani/pedis. BM was picking up ss6 and sd13 was in the car. Giving bm shit about sd11 staying with us-and making her comments. we just ignored her and left.
so bm comes to drop off ss6-she opens the van door-talk about a can of sardines-there were more kids then seatbelts. SD13 starts bragging about getting HER nails done (full set on both her hands AND feet) and facial/waxing for her and her 3 besties. Bm paid.
And how BM bought her a new bikini (my thongs have more material then her bathing suit but whatever)
My thoughts are this-are there any SM's out there who's BM treats her own daughter like shit and bends over backwards for her skids?!
Or are there any BM's out there that bend over backwards to impress their skids so much they ignore their birth kids?!
SD11 is italian-very hairy.....she wants to shave....underarms/legs/mustache/unibrow. BM tells her no-she's too young. Then turns around and takes SD13 to the salon to get waxed and primped!
SD13 is tall/Pale/blonde. SD11 is starting to grow/tan as a mofo and dark haired. I refuse to shave or wax or pluck anything on her body. DH tells her to ask her mom-but BM says no but then turns around and does it sd13....
I wax my dd's unibrow-she gets plucked and waxed (she's part native american and is furry)how the hell can you waste money on your sd like that-but not your own daughter......and what's worse-sd13 and her 3 "besties" that were with bm were making fun of sd11 to the point she was crying-bm just yells at her to stop being a baby and then takes off.
My grandmother spent 30min trying to calm this child down. Can someone explain how can you treat your daughter like shit but then goes all out for your stepdaughter?!
I'm really glad that BM's sister is fighting to keep SD11 with her this upcoming year. Because I"m not sure how much more this child can deal with.
I just wanna cry for her.