Dad, 12 yr old, and I have had several discussions about this and it will be fine for a day and then it goes back to the same way. This week the 12 and 11 year old have been staying up until 12. Dad is deep sleeper who also snores so if they are in the living room (I have my bedroom door shut) he doesn't hear them but I do since I am a light sleeper. I told dh I have to work and he doesn't deal with them and all their noise I do. And then when I get up at midnight to tell them hey it's bedtime I am the asshole. They are like we have 5 minutes left. My daughter is 9 and regardless if it is summer she doesn't stay up that late. I am about to lose my mind!!! I will have a talk with dh but I don't know how to deal with these kids anymore. I feel like I am starting to just feel sick even when I know theyre coming. I don't like feeling like this but I also don't know what else to say to them or to dh to make him understand. I also feel I need to disengage. I hope someone understands and can help me with any advice. I still have 7 years of this and in all honesty I think things will get worse before it will get better.