SD keeps saying SHUT UP and hateful things. I got her a phone and put her on my plan. Well she knows MY RULE about being hateful and saying SHUT UP. Before she got a phone she disrespect me and everything. Until that one day when she told dh to SHUT UP. I told her to go to her room until she can come out and say sorry like she means it. Yesterday she started being hateful and she told her dad to SHUT UP I took her phone and told her I will give it back on my time. Well, 5 minutes later her attitude changes and I still didn't give her phone back. But I talked with her about the agreement and rules again. And I asked her why did I take her phone from her so she can understand why. Then she said something I thought was to far she answered stating she was being mean and she don't care if she was. I told her her attitude needs to change and she will get her phone back. Last night around 930 she came to dh gave him a hug and said sorry then she came talked to me and told me she was sorry and she understand this is an ongoing punishment and she will try to stop. I gave her her phone back and explained to her that she does it again it will be longer.
That's how i took care of SD and her hatefulness.
FYI: I would do this with my DD and DS as well not only lhern
on Aug. 7, 2012 at 10:07 AM