I am a mom to a 2 yr old boy with one in the oven and have an 8 yr old stepdaughter. We were very close before my son came as she was the only child we had for two years. She is the only child on her mom's side, so is given quite a bit of attention. When she is with us, she does what we know she is capable of doing and has responsibilities. She is showing a lot of anger towards her brother and the new baby and is withdrawing from us. I feel like this is partially my fault as I do not give her the attention I once did, though I do take her on the occasional date just the two of us. She is with us only every other weekend and on Tuesdays, but cries for her mom at night. I am simply worried about her. I know that siblings are great assets, but she is having a really hard time. Any thoughts? Do I need to baby her more or just continue to have the same expectations for her?