Ok...A little back....We have SD every other week until FINAL custody court October 28th. So about a month ago SD comes over with lice so bad we can SEE them on her head just looking at her. We spend a week treating it and our home. We finally get rid of it just for her to go back to BM house. The next time she comes over she starts daycare because we both have to work. We cant see any lice this time but we treat our house again and keep an eye on her head. She goes home to BMs. Come back yesterday and guess who has lice again?
This make the 4th time THIS YEAR that I have had to treat fucking lice!! I keep treating it...she keeps NOT treating her house or taking the kids where ever so I have to keep fucking treating it!! THANKFULLY my DD has NEVER gotten it and I am careful to make sure she doesnt but why should anyone have to worry about their DD playing with their SD because of lice? DDs hair is REALLY long and i will have to cut it and DD will freak because she doesnt want it cut.
So last night...SD tells us that BM wants her out of daycare because thats where she keeps getting lice from. So I ask SD...
"Is it possible to get lice from a place that youve never been? Previously when we've treated for lice, you had never been to daycare correct?"
Me: "Ok so how did you get lice from a place youve never been to? And if that was the case then wouldnt other kids at daycare have lice? Which they dont."
SD: "Thats right...my mom is silly. "
Oh yeah...."silly"...thats EXACTLY what I'd call her. I am so tired of treating lice!! I am tired of this ignorant bitch showing up at my house and leaving random notes on my door. Im tired of her telling SKs that it doesnt matter if their mother says they can misbehave at my house because they cannot and WILL be punished for doing so. Im tired of them treating my DD and my things with absolutely NO respect. Im tired of her thinking she can ust keep the kids even though they have paperwork saying its HIS time. Im sick to death of her talking to him and the kids like theyre fucking dogs. Im just tired! I cannot wait until final court is over.
So I know ive been venting but this is my question...does anyone know of a REALLY good way to get rid of lice without having to do those treatments? These kids hair is going to fall out if they keep getting these chemicals in their hair. No way its good for them. Im sure SOMEONE SOMEWHERE has had to deal ith lice...any tricks?
Ive even offered to PAY to take care of her house...but the exterminators wont do anything because her house is so filthy. They cant even move around in there TO do anything.