I'm not sure how to address this with BM or even if I or DH should. Here's the deal:
When BM left DH, she didn't take anything with her of SD's. I mean NOTHING! When DH and I moved in together and got married, I started going through everything in the house. I found SD's crib card from when she was born, her ultrasound pics, her hospital bracelet, etc, etc. I also found her pics from the hospital. I put everything in a box. I also found all of her baby presents like the silver brush and mirror, silver cup, etc. I found her baby clothes and the clothes she had pics in, I mean I found EVERYTHING from when she was a baby. BM had shoved it down in the basement and a lot of the clothes and such were ruined but I tried to save them.
Ok, so fast forward a few years. My kids each have a baby book that I made them from the time they were born. They enjoy looking at them. SD told me and DH that BM never made her anything like that. It got me and DH to thinking... I found the box that had all of her baby stuff in it a month ago. DH asked me to make her a baby book, so him and I bought her one and started putting it together (with DH telling me everything that he knows to fill it out). There are a few things that DH honestly doesn't remember the answer to (when was SD's first "real" smile," questions like that).
SD LOVES this book. She looks at it everyday she's with us. I would like the book to be complete, but don't know if that's a big deal. Should I ask DH to ask BM a couple of the questions he wasn't sure about to see if BM remembers? Should I just leave well enough alone with it almost filled out?