I've read quite a number of post about skids becoming more hateful, disrespectful, arrogant and plain out mean once they hit legal age. I've noticed that many of those skids tell the bio-parent if you don't divorce him/her I won't have anything to do with you. I'm not talking about a 5 or 6 year old here, but either grown or almost grown skids.
My question is has this happened to any of you? If so what did you do? How did you handle it? How did DH handle it? Do you think this is residual BM mind control (aka PAS) or something else?
My "mom" is really my SM and I adore her. But even if I didn't have a great relationship with her, if I'd ever told my dad "divorce her or I won't have anything to do with you" he would have told me have a nice life and shut the door in my face.
Why do so many skids all of a sudden feel that age 18 is the time to bow up about remarriage issues? What do you think??