DH finally had to deal with his angel - Meet and greet @ school funny (2pt)
Boy have we had a week and finally DH had to deal with it because I refused. This past thursday I had a doctors appt and my DH went with just in case I got sent to hospital cause mesh patch is infected. Well we left both girls at home with my 17 year old babysitting. 15 min's after getting to the doctor my son was calling my cell. The oldest SD was acting up again, he said she was fine when she got up and had breakfest but then she started the same crap she does to her teachers when she's not getting her way. Acting like she doesn't know where or who she is and when told to do something she does the opp. She does this when it's time for school and she doesn't want to go and when she doesn't want to do her school work. he got so bad about wanting her way last year that she tried leaving school twice. When school social worker asked why she told her cause her mommy told her she could! Anyway I had my son tell DH what she was doing and he had her put on the phone and he did the usual of telling her she better strighten up, yeah like that was gonna work,lol...when we got home she was still doing her thing, he would tell her to put on her glasses and she would grab something else and swear it was her glasses, tell her to go into time out and she'd go out the door, I refused to deal with it this time cause for 6 years I have delt with it cause he would be at work or getting ready for work.This went on all day, during supper she was fine but as soon as she was done and was told no tv due to her behavior she started again so bad that when we said enough go get in the shower and get to bed she went to the bathroom stripped and then tried walking naked thru the house, finally going into her room got her sister conforter wrapping it around herself going back to bathroom and started urinateing. I tried putting her in shower and she started fighting me, I couldn't wrestle her due to my surgical spot busting back open so her father had to physically put her in the tub I then had to stand there and make her wash. when she was done she went in room and tried to get in bed naked and made her standup and handed her her night gown she then slappe my glasses off my face and got dressed. It was all I could do not to smack her, instead I walked out the room and told DH if she ever did that again, she would know what a good old fashion spanking is all about. Friday morning came and I called her doctor and made a appt to bring her in yesterday. Now we are going the shrink route again, like its gonna do any good. When we sat her down on friday and asked her why she acted the way she did she said cause I don't want to go to mommie's....That is court ordered and only 2 weekends out the month, she knows this won't change!! Well we had meet and greet last night at her school and when her father and I tried to talk with her teacher about her behavior last year and now it was starting again at home and that we were doing what needed to be done the teacher responded by ," ahh I know I'm not going to have any problems with her we are going to become good friends this year"...and when we told her that just in case she does please send her to the school SW, she just walked away.. I know this is going to be a year so when she calls saying that this child has done this or refuses to do that or tried to leave the school I'm gonna remind he of what she said!!!