My step daughter has caused my feelings for my husband to be in jepordy. I find myself pulling away more and more each day. She plays this game, she is rude and disrespectful to me whenever her dad is not around, I have tried over the years to address this by myself and have gotten no where! I have also tried addressing it with her dad, but when he does try to talk to her she plays the guilt card and makes her dad feel like an awful father. With things like, I feeel like she has taken you away from me. We dont get to spend time together anymore. This coming from a child that walks in the house right past her dad and doesnt say a word. Not a hello not anything. The only time she ever speaks to him is when she wants something. Other than that she is RUDE to him as well. The issue has never been resolved do to this repeating itself. She doesnt follow any rules in our home, she does what she wants and always seems to be able to play daddys sympathy cord. I cant stand it anymore and it is ruining my relationship. Should I just give up? This has been going on for 3 years now. I dont see the light at the end of the tunnel.