Some ladies in here need to let this sink in........
If you have hate in your heart for someone, you can bet your last dollar you will literally seek out reasons to justify your hatred.
Only once are you fully immersed in the circle of hatred, will you not see so clearly anymore and even your better judgment cannot be trusted anymore.
Be careful ladies of the hatred you are holding within your mind, body and soul. It will end up hurting you more in the end. And what hurts you, touches everyone around you, including children.