Was good friends and now I see why that was a bad idea
Hello!! I am new to this site!! But I have been a step mom for almost 4 years. My husband and I have full custody of her. At first, the birth mom and I did NOT get along at all. She cheated on my husband while he was fighting in Iraq muliple times and basically didn't want to be with him when they were stationed out of the country. We didn't get along at first but then it started to become where when we were around each other she was really nice and then we started talking about my SC on the phone and then we found out we had alot in common and we got along really well. To where we had girls night 2 times.. and even went out with my husband with friends. I figured she was over this whole thing and we were just gunna be one of those weird couples that just all get along.. well, little did I know one day she told me more then I wanted to know that he cheated on me and all theses lies.. I don't understand WHAT she was trying to get out of it... I know he did and Im for sure he didn't. I now will just alk to her about SC and thats it.. Does anybody get along with the BM??? Any advice on waht I should do or if what I am doing is good?? ANYTHING..
OH and now shes making me doubt my mothering skills when it comes to SC in school.. -sigh-