Finalization of parenting plan do you agree or what would you change?
This is SO New parenting plan: Kids to go to our school (transportation) at start BM Drops off and end of day SO drops off they are to be with SO M-F (3pm-6pm), which allows SO to help with homework and provide care that bm cannot afford for after Care(last year she had a problem with paying for it even though she is on stater assistance and yes SO was paying CS and has been since 2009 when they broke up), Weekends: So gets them 3 weekends a month and Holidays are odd and even. except Mother's day and her bday...
Summer /winter breaks Kids will live with SO full time and weekends(F-SUn 6pm-6pm) with BM(we did the 2weeks on and off and It did not work for BM, she was constantly asking for us to take the kids if we could not either her mom or her bro or friends would have them)
REason we are asking for the Kids to come to our school because BM has had issues with kids at school and has not addressed them. 6yr cannot recognize letters in the alphabet, count to 100, or recognize mom,dad,dog,cat.., hold a pencil correctly, he threated a kid at school over a toy and other issues and our school offers various of programs that help with these issues up to date Bm has refused everything we have offered, with no reason. there has been other issues where kids do not want to be here because SO disciples(takes things away like activities. ect) and BM does not becasue wants to be parent who allows certian behavior to go on
SO has court next week and he was wondering how does he address the court without pointing fingers?