Been a couple of years....still not bonding with SS...not sure what to do? Causing issues....
What's his age....etc...
Please give more information.
Quoting Ms.Gwen:Can you give us more info? Age of child? Custody sitch? Maybe some examples?
What is SS interested in? Maybe try to connect that way...or talk to your husband about it, bring it up that you want to bond...
not enough info to even try to help, what is his age? how often do you see him? are there other kids? what makes you think your not bonding? what do you do ? what does he do? what does dh feel?
No matter what the age, it is OK if you don't bond. I found moments of brief bonding with my SS, but nothing lasting. I think if we beat ourselves up over our feelings, we can't see sometimes the things we are doing right.
As long as you are being a kind person that is what matters.
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