ETA:
What if the kids were 15 and 17 and had not spoken to Dad in a year. Every attempt was made on his part to contact them but they said they would no longer speak to him as long as he was married to you? But now they want to be best friends with you since they do not have access to the money anymore?
Hell no. It sounds like they care more about his money than they do about him. If they'd made even a SLIGHT effort to be in his life before he passed then I would do it without a thought, but for them to just ignore him and then come around asking for their cut? Screw that.
No.
But I would ask why they didn't have a relationship while he was alive, and why they are asking for his money now that he's dead.
Quoting ManicAttack:No.
But I would ask why they didn't have a relationship while he was alive, and why they are asking for his money now that he's dead.
We made it this way because you never know how things may be. Both of us lost our dads and each have a stepbrother who had to receive money and used it on drugs.
In the situation described, they couldnt even go to the funeral and only worried about money, no, theyd get nothing.
They wouldn't get a dime from me.
Quoting AirForceWife13:
Because they only wanted Dad for money. If they didn't get what they wanted they didn't speak to him. Then they said he didn't get them what they wanted because of his new wife and kids.
Quoting ManicAttack:No.
But I would ask why they didn't have a relationship while he was alive, and why they are asking for his money now that he's dead.
i say fuck no, they couldnt be bothered to be around when he was alive they have no claim to the money
If my Dh was to die,it was my choice to put a LI policy on him. I did,and now it's mine. I'd give the skids some of dh's stuff.
Step kids and extracurriculars
- AirForceWife13
on Aug. 31, 2012 at 1:39 AM