Hi ladies, I myself am a step mom too a 19 year old I have not yet met, I have been with the husband for 3 years, prior too our days together his son came for a visit and the two did not have a great visit. My husband was 17 when his son was born, his mom left and the last visit 4 years ago was their first.
That is not where my question plays its part, my husband and I have an 18 month old son together, I also have 2 babies from a previous marriage one is 5 the other is 3, they spend every weekend with their dad, his common law partner, her 11 year old daughter and their 22 month old son. Their step mother is of christian belief, my ex and I agreed that because his mom floated threw men and converted them often enough that he did not want religion for our children I myself was brought up in a house of no belief at all that we would raise them religious free. Their step mom is now taking my 5 year old too church while my 3 year old daughter stays home with my ex. Now on a different note, my ex is not allowed too be alone with our children, it is their step mothers job to supervise his visitation, according to my 5 year old she is leaving my daughter and her 11 year old daughter in the care of a man who is court ordered too not be alone with our children.
Now, as a mother and unexperienced step mother, I want too know how is the best way too address this with the dear ol' ex and my childrens step mother???
I hope I do not offend and I hope I dont get "if your son wants too go....." it should not be offered, it should be situated where she casually leaves and does her thing than comes home after, without either of my children in toe!!!
Let me know your thoughts, and BE HONEST yet respectful!!