CAN I HAVE A "FREE DAY" W/ NO CONTACT OF BM ON MY ANNIVERSARY?
When my DH and I got married, we didn't plan very well and got married around or on what ends up being the first day of school every year! He was not in school yet when we got married. We didn't even think about it! I know....dahhh! Can I do a " do over"? Ha!
Any way, that being said ....I have to " share so many things in my step life, and even my anniversary day is NOT MY OWN DAY! It does suck. Well, this year we did not have ss, so I was looking forward to a total " FREE DAY" from all the stuff! I felt one day should just be about my husband and I!
We were having a great day.....oh let me back up a bit....when we don't have my ss we either call to say good night or when she thinks of it , she has him call us to say good night. So, almost everynight we say good night to my ss.
Okay so, we were having a good day....just my DH and I! I was having NO thoughts of bms, sks, drama....we are sitting in movie theatre , 2 minutes before movie is about to begin....and DH says "let's call______ and say good night. Really? So I do, and bm answers with some shit questions about something she wants....ss is eating and really doesn't want to talk....
Well, I got upset! Couldn't we have not called just ONE NIGHT OF THE YEAR? SO NOW MY ANNIVERSARY WAS FILLED WITH THOUGHTS OF BM ETC...and we argued and ruined the rest of what was a good private day ( turn off the phones) kind of day! My Anniversary ruined again!
Not fair! Feel like she steals " happy times" out of our marriage!