DH doesn't want to "take away your kid" BM... But it's S*** LIKE THIS!!
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Ok so I just learned, from BM's good good friend, that she got beat up a few weeks ago by her next door neighbor. The friend felt uncomfortable telling me the whole story. And I didn't push. Anyways, it was about 3 weeks ago the fight happened. No one has seen BM in the complex since that day. DH's brother lives right down the street from BM's parents and said he's seen her and SS there more than usual lately. And a friend of his reported that he saw BM and her dad moving things into the parents house.
The "friend" told me today that she is moving back in with them but still retaining residence at her apt in order to keep her section 8 voucher.
Also, dh saw the judge today to tell him that BM did not hand over SS for his court ordered visit. The judge plans on giving her jail time.
I'm just so fed up and frusterated with the games she plays. Dh's intentions were never to take SS away like she thinks he is. He just wanted to be his dad!! Not just a child support sugar daddy for BM's drug habits.
But this is what it's come down to. If he ends up getting custody he plans on asking for BM to have supervised visits because of her threatening to leave state and his fear of her extreme bad mouthing.
Dh is devastated that it's come to this. He used to love this chick. And he thought she used to love him. But not she's just filled with hate and resentment towards him and uses his son to destroy him.