As you all know my SD age 19 was thrown out of our home due to her disrespecting us. She had surgery to remove plates from her ankle 2 weeks ago from when she broke it 4 years ago. She told DH not to bring me to surgery because her BM was going to be there and BM wanted to talk to DH to work things out.
Really?? He never married her for a reason.
Well turns out BM made a big scene at the hospital did nothing but bad mouth DH and myself and SD went right along with her.
The person that SD is living with is a "mutual" friend of DH, myself and BM. She stays pretty neutral that we know of. SD does not call or text, she continues to bad mouth her Dad and I and is still trying to break us up so her BM can try to work thing out with her Dad (that will never happen even if he was not with me, he hates BM).
Anyway the friend calls DH and says she need him to take SD to her follow up Dr appt because she does not want to deal with BM and they do not have a car. They expect my husband to take a day off work knowing I have been off on FMLA due to complex migraines and I am the one who has the better paying job. If he says no then he is the bad guy. They expect him to do something for SD cause the friend does not want the BM to take them and hear her mouth. DH does not want to take her because we can not afford for him to take the day off work unpaid. The friend or the SD do not contact DH at all unless they need him for something. SD tells him how she wants him to leave me and until he does he is not her Dad, but she expects him to do for her. SD has a friend that is willing to take her and does not really need DH to do it. He knows if he does take her it will turn into a huge fight because she will continue to tell him how he is no father because he is with me and will not leave me and work things out with BM.
DH and BM have not been together for 15 years. DH and I have been together 13 years and married 11 years. SD will not get it through her head DH and I are not going to split up just because she wants us to. I do not think he should take her, it is not worth the aggravation it will cause.