Quoting savingtheworld:Wth? I have 3 kids too also my skids? I provide meals..what's my hubby have to do with it? I have a great hubby! He provides the kids an myself the funds to supply groceries! It's not he's fault! Just bc ur a mother doesn't make u great! What am I suppose to do? Supply a meal for my 3 an not he's? It ain't my fault bio can't cook! My husband an I work as a team! I was just asking how do we not let bio influence children with negatives!!
Again, I was enquiring about your husband's approach to hygiene and nutrition prior to his separation from BM. I presume he would have noticed that his ex lacked in this department! What did he do back then to counter it?
Quoting natasha_19:No in no freaking way is that ok its just a sign of the biological parents insecurity and childishness. I am a step parent and biological mom and I expect my SD to listin to me at all times just like my son has to and i tell my son he has to listin and be good for my ex's girlfriend and any other adult that is in charge of him. I feel children need to respect adults whether or not I like them is irrelivent.
Quoting natasha_19:I completely agree the real world is full of people I don't like however I still have to be civil in the very least. Rudness get you no where in the real world Best to teach your children that now.
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